Friday 9 April 2010

Friends

J has asked me to go out with him and his friends tomorrow night. I've said yes. But now I'm not so sure.

(Over analysis coming up!)

By meeting his friends, what does this signify in our "relationship"? Are we in one? Is it going that way? Does he want to know what his friends think of me if he decides that he's committing? What do I do? Our cultures are very different. If I decide to go with it because there are plenty of cross cultural relationships and ours could flourish and then it ends in heartbreak - is it worth it?

12 comments:

Sabby said...

I think it's nice that he asked you to go out with his friends. It would give you a chance to see the kind of guy he is when he's around his friends and how he treats *you* when around them.

I can't say you shouldn't over-analyze because I do the_same_thing....BUT I can ask you to go and have fun! If you have enjoyed his company so far, this is just going to be another milestone :)

Farah said...

hmmm - i think you should (try) to take it at face value and (try) to not over analyse it... enjoy the evening and the company (as well as his friends). Like Sabby said - it will be good to see what he's like around you AND his friends and the way he treats you when he's with his friends. Enjoy... and let us know how it goes?

Kaiser Kobayashi said...

*sigh* girls!!! :p

GO! have fun! and its always worth it. awaiting the post that says you had an awesome time and that the kaiser was right!!! :p

Enjoy. live. love.

*hugs*

crystal flame said...

as Sabby said, it'll be a milestone. take the step, and go have fun. good luck! **

Me-shak said...

Go ahead, it's rally cool that he invited you. It's very unlikely of a guy to invite his girl blah blah blah for a meet up! I guess the guy really likes you. This is what I think. All the best with that!
Cheers!

~ lo$t $oul ~ said...

JUST GOOOOOOOO!!!! *pushing you*

Dee said...

zomg. *slaps*
stop analysing it! just go. Have fun. See if you like his table manners and don't order spagetti or anything with garlic ;)

Dili said...

Go.Have.Fun.Write.Post.After.

:)

Jack Point said...

I'm with Kaiser, just go.

santhoshi said...

You should go. We want a post about it.

Cadence said...

GO! Agree with all the sentiments above.

:D

Scrumps said...

All: Seeing as you all told me to do exactly the same thing (though some of you were more violent than others (DEE! :P, I will and I will overanalyse once it's been done! :)